The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse
Now that I've found a few links, I'm intrigued by the cover: "Recognizing and Escaping Spiritual Manipulation and False Spiritual Authority Within the Church" Hmmmmm. "Manipulation" is a HUGE keyword as of late. OK ... I can't resist. I'm going to take the "sneak peek" and see what it says.
The introduction has some elements with which I can relate ... especially honestly wanting help when you feel like you're struggling, and ending up having a finger pointed at you without room for (as they say) give-and-take dialogue. Here is their definition: Spiritual abuse is the mistreatment of a person who is in need of help, support or greater spiritual empowerment, with the result of weakening, undermining or decreasing that person's spiritual empowerment.
This might be good!